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believe, not fear

"Pretty One" by Thomas Hawk

Humans are random and colorful just like change. Sometimes they come suddenly without flashing us, sometimes we decide about the road of change, but in both ways there is the fear. It is normal.

We were grown by the society to be scared of the unknown, scared of the unseeable and unpredictable. And life can be like that, especially the future that we cannot foresee, future that we cannot fully believe in while we are not fully clean as a human.

These days I have been thinking a lot about change, because i had to choose between two majors for college. After a tons of research of all sorts i managed to see the preferable but i found out that nothing will be clear as a math result, especially things of these sorts that will stick with us to the distant future.

We cannot predict or foresee how it will go after we choose a change but we can stick with it, believe in it and believe in ourselves, because in the end there was a reason for everything, i could bold this.

While we are not fully clean humans we can just hope that the reasons are soft, by the mere believing in our decision we are fortifying it and making the road better for walk.

After a long research we can’t blame ourselves of the change that went bad, because we can never predict the weather perfectly, nature is everywhere and change is a part of it. Just.

If the change is already started, then why don’t stick with it and just dig it until the end.

say hello to passively made habits

"Dont Trust Your Own Shadow" by Meshari Karkari

Consistency and inconsistency are special words that must always be present in minds because they can define if we will go to the finish line or fail without even trying. How many times did you read that the things you don’t see, feel, pressure and plan can be with the same value with the things that are visible to our outside and inside? I am sure it was hyperbolic, with positive numbers. But on the other hand i am also sure that sometimes it is harder to manage the things we see…

I cannot stress it out enough how it is important to be consistent with our own words either be it saying out loud or saying it so that even the mosquitoes around us won’t hear. Yesterday, I read a quote that says, “Goals that are not written down are just wishes” the Author is unknown. Some of you may agree with the quote because of the metaphors or your hard tries. I say that it is not important if we write our goals or not, what is important is that we are being consistent with our own decisions.

No matter how much we think something in our closeness is unique, there is 99% someone else feeling or doing it. I believe that you know that sometimes it is better not to write any goals nor say them aloud in order to really make it happen. Well, lets go back to the main point…

Habits are not being created only by our efficiency but also with our inefficiency, and the habit created by the inefficiency is usually just like a invisible fire burning in a secret forest, it will be hard to stop the fire once recognized that something is holding us down.

If we once step of the road we planned, the next time when we want to take the road it will be harder because of the first time we failed, because of the first time when we were taken by our short term desires. Failing to follow our decisions once, twice and third time the volcano that was expanding in the inside of us will break out so that we see what we have created, which can be nearly inevitable if we don’t take the stand next time.¬†Habits are hands that build the road that drives us higher or lower in the life, control the creation of unwanted habits and always go forward.